Its a puzzle tat has to be solved to understand whats happening around and its not an easy task. Each and every person has to go through what ever is happening around him to learn whats required. Some people learn from while others do not. Y is it difficult to understand the people mind may be tat the reason they say " HUMAN body is the most complicated Machine of all" . What ever happens life has to go on. And as Humans we do hav mentality to change/adapt to surrounding which all dont posses but they try to fit in the box. Atleast they hav an attitude of trying to be one among. Its really hard to understand wat others think abt us but its better to stop thinking since its our life not theirs.
We hav to be wat we are otherwise we will loose our Identity at one point of time.